Our lives are defined by our choices. A good choice today can lead to a fruitful tomorrow. A bad choice today can lead to an undesirable tomorrow. However, it's not always that linear and often times the good and bad lines are murky and ambiguous. In fact, it's almost never a binary choice between good and bad, but a gradient scale from 0 to 100 where both sides are equally good and bad depending on which perspective you're using in the moment. As high performers, we get stuc